{"id":23,"date":"2016-08-13T02:56:45","date_gmt":"2016-08-13T02:56:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/iamakulov.com\/notes2\/?p=23"},"modified":"2017-05-05T21:53:06","modified_gmt":"2017-05-05T21:53:06","slug":"asking-good-questions-when-mentoring-a-person","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iamakulov.com\/notes\/asking-good-questions-when-mentoring-a-person\/","title":{"rendered":"Asking good questions when mentoring a person"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We have a new Junior\/Middle front-end developer on our project, and I\u2019ve been mentoring him for a couple of days. My responsibility as a mentor is to help the developer understand the most parts of the project in the shortest time. As a part of achieving this, I regularly ask him two things in our conversations:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cDo you have any questions?\u201d and<\/li>\n<li>\u201cHave I explained this well?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h1 id=\"do-you-have-any-questions\">\u201cDo you have any questions?\u201d<a href=\"https:\/\/iamakulov.com\/notes\/asking-good-questions-when-mentoring-a-person\/#do-you-have-any-questions\" class=\"heading-link\" aria-label=\"Link to this section\" title=\"Link to this section\">#<\/a><\/h1>\n<p>This one is pretty obvious to ask, but I try to repeat it as often as I can so any questions the developer comes up with are answered quickly:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Arriving at the office in the morning: <em>\u201cHey, how\u2019re things going? Do you have any questions?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<li>Leaving after assigning a task: <em>\u201cFeel free to ping me if you have any questions\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<li>Sitting with a mentee in a pause while waiting for a module to build: <em>\u201cBy the way, do you have any questions about the system or is something not entirely clear?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The point is to make the developer super-comfortable to ask <em>any<\/em> questions he gets. The more he asks, the quicker he learns.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/iamakulov.com\/notes2\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/question-signs.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"75\" height=\"46\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-24\" style=\"display: block; margin: 3em auto\" \/><\/p>\n<h1 id=\"have-i-explained-this-well\">\u201cHave I explained this well?\u201d<a href=\"https:\/\/iamakulov.com\/notes\/asking-good-questions-when-mentoring-a-person\/#have-i-explained-this-well\" class=\"heading-link\" aria-label=\"Link to this section\" title=\"Link to this section\">#<\/a><\/h1>\n<p>I find this exact question extremely useful, and I feel like it\u2019s my little invention (haven\u2019t seen anyone using it yet). I ask it every time I explain something to the mentee to make sure I\u2019m clear, and the mentee\u2019s level of knowledge is enough to understand the stuff:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>\u201cSo this is how<\/em> $module.require <em>works&#8230; Have I explained this well?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I prefer this question more than <em>\u201cDo you have any questions?\u201d<\/em> because the latter feels too official to me in this context.<\/p>\n<p>The point about the question is that you should ask it in exactly the specified form. It\u2019s easy to transform it to <em>\u201cIs this clear to you?\u201d<\/em> or <em>\u201cDo you get this?\u201d<\/em>, but you shouldn\u2019t do this. All these latter questions are about <em>the mentee<\/em> and their perceptional abilities and could make them feel insecure if they answer \u201cNo.\u201d This decreases the communication between them and you and is definitely not your goal. I only find the <em>\u201cHave I explained this well?\u201d<\/em> form to be not about the mentee and therefore be safe.<\/p>\n<h1 id=\"bonus-question-can-you-explain-this-to-me\">Bonus question: \u201cCan you explain this to me?\u201d<a href=\"https:\/\/iamakulov.com\/notes\/asking-good-questions-when-mentoring-a-person\/#bonus-question-can-you-explain-this-to-me\" class=\"heading-link\" aria-label=\"Link to this section\" title=\"Link to this section\">#<\/a><\/h1>\n<p>This one is useful too. I ask it to check that the mentee fully understood the topic we were talking about. If the developer answers well, then it\u2019s cool; if he doesn\u2019t, I notice the points where he gets stuck, and help him with them.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/iamakulov.com\/notes2\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/stars.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"76\" height=\"26\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-25\" style=\"display: block; margin: 3em auto\" \/><\/p>\n<h1 id=\"not-only-mentoring\">Not only mentoring<a href=\"https:\/\/iamakulov.com\/notes\/asking-good-questions-when-mentoring-a-person\/#not-only-mentoring\" class=\"heading-link\" aria-label=\"Link to this section\" title=\"Link to this section\">#<\/a><\/h1>\n<p>These questions are useful not only when you\u2019re mentoring someone, but also when you give a talk, a lecture, conduct training, etc.<\/p>\n<p>For example, a lot of speakers only answer questions at the end of their speech, when a half of the listeners have already forgotten what they wanted to ask about. I tend to ask <em>\u201cDo you have any questions?\u201d<\/em> after each major part of my talk. This has two advantages:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>attendees understand the speech better because we speak of the material that was on the screen just a moment before that,<\/li>\n<li>and there\u2019re fewer situations like \u201cCould you please switch to slide 2\u201d when you\u2019re on slide 53.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I used this approach this with <a href=\"http:\/\/iamakulov.com\/talks\/redux-in-real-life\/\">\u201cRedux in real life\u201d<\/a> and in a company\u2019s internal React training, and seems like it worked well.<\/p>\n<p><!--\n# Bonus point: open-ended questions\n\nThis is a bit unrelated to the topic of mentoring, but also useful.\n\nThere\u2019s a thing called \u201copen-ended question.\u201d Closed-ended questions are the questions that can only be answered with \u201cYes\u201d or \u201cNo\u201d, and open-ended questions are the opposite:\n\n- A closed-ended question: *\u201cDo you like this design?\u201d*\nAn open-ended one: *\u201cWhat do you think about the design?\u201d*\n- A closed-ended question: *\u201cWas releasing this app challenging?\u201d*\nAn open-ended one: *\u201cWhat challenges did you face while working on this app?\u201d*\n\nOpen-ended questions are more useful because they require the detailed response, from which you can take more details. There\u2019s a good article about them: http:\/\/blog.hubspot.com\/sales\/the-art-of-asking-open-ended-questions\n--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We have a new Junior\/Middle front-end developer on our project, and I\u2019ve been mentoring him for a couple of days. My responsibility as a mentor is to help the developer understand the most parts of the project in the shortest time. 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